Several times in the last few weeks,
I've felt like people around me have seen the homeless as a problem,
and preferably a problem that can be fixed or gotten rid of. It
disturbs me, and I'm not entirely sure how to respond.
When I told someone about the incident with Tarra, she mentioned that some people might respond by
commenting on how I should move to a better neighbourhood. In other
words, I should do my best to get away from the homeless or battered
folks.
At my neighbourhood's last meeting we
talked about the homeless. The neighbourhood (Eastside Lansing) is close to downtown
Lansing and has a number of spaces like underpasses, parks, and
trails where homeless folk tend to gather. We also have a hospital
and a number of homeless shelters in our neighbourhood or on the
border of it. There's also a couple of busier intersections where
folks ask for money. It's thus hard to live in the neighbourhood and
not notice that there are homeless folks here in Lansing. That's
something to be thankful for – they are our neighbours, and we
should see them. The challenge, however, is how one responds to the
homeless.
When a bunch of homeless folks take
over your shanty in the backyard and use it as a makeshift toilet,
this is obviously disgusting and a problem. When people shoot up heroin in
public bathrooms and leave dirty needles, this is unsafe and a
problem. When people are running into the street to ask for money, this
is dangerous and a problem. Perhaps giving to those at the corner
would help, except those asking for money at a corner are not necessarily even
homeless but instead might be begging for cash because it's easier and makes
more money than a low-income job. One can see how it's easy to see
how it's the homeless themselves who become the problem, a problem
that needs to be gotten rid of. But I wonder if instead of the
homeless being the problem, the problem is really how we treat them
and the systems we have set up. Are there not things to do to make
life better for those currently on the street and those with whom
they interact?
I've been volunteering at a homeless
shelter about once a month for awhile now. I'm not sure if it's part
of the solution, but it's part of my trying to see and know the
homeless for who they are. I'm not sure about the theological idea
that God has a preference for the poor, but I do believe I have
something to learn from these folks who understand what it's like to
be truly needy. As I hand out food to the men at the shelter – food
which they don't get to choose the quality of or even the quantity of
– they are polite, gracious and thankful. On top of that, there are
always guys who are willing to help out when we run short of
volunteers – glad to help out whenever. Knowing my own selfishness
and my annoyance for people who don't show up or do what they
promised, I am
challenged by their example.
It seems natural to me to try to
converse with these men, trying to appreciate them for who they are,
encourage them if I can, as well as to be encouraged and further
challenged by them. You can imagine my surprise (and frustration)
when the last time I was volunteering one of the homeless men helping
out was reprimanded by the staff for talking to me, being told he's
not to converse with the (real) volunteers. The reasoning was to
discourage the men from getting the wrong idea about how a female
volunteer might be interested in them or wanting some kind of
relationship. Despite this being a Christian homeless shelter, it
seemed like the homeless guy was pretty much blatantly told he was
the problem. How do I fight against that? How do I tell them not to
blame the guys at the shelter when such a situation, in my eyes, is
more the fault of not training naive volunteers or on account of a
neglecting to create and enforce healthy boundaries by both the
volunteer and the staff all those noticing the conversations? And how
do I say that I find it disturbingly unchristian to treat the
homeless like a problem that needs fixing, whether by having them be
kept in their place or having them be forced (before receiving dinner) to hear a sermon that often focuses on how they need to accept Jesus into their heart? As I
jokingly told Matthijs, the homeless could probably use a lot less
Jesus in their hearts and a lot more Jesus on the streets. And in
this case, I'm not sure it's the homeless that need Jesus the most.
Matthew 25 suggests that it is through helping the homeless that
people help Jesus. I wonder how it'd change the
conversation if we saw the homeless less as problems and more as
Jesus.